New Years 2008
I usually pass this around at New Years, so I thought this would be a good place to put it. Imagine how the world would be if everyone did this!
Pass-It-Forward
By Nisandeh Neta
Every 12 months, as the New-Year rolls around, we all brag about our New-Year's Resolutions. With inflated chests and with all the authority we can muster, we announce to any and every available ear, that we're going to lose weight, stop drinking and smoking so much, as well as spend more time with our family, in addition to investing more time down at the gym.
Mostly our vision extends no further than our own noses. To add insult to injury, we usually don't follow through on our "Me Orientated" resolutions and goals. In a matter of months, and sometimes even weeks, we've forgotten all about our "new improved" character, which results in feelings of frustration and failure.
Most 'experts' tell us not to elevate our expectations too high. On the other hand, perhaps we fail because we don't set out goals high enough.
What if we looked outward instead of inward when making our declarations? Would we then be able to complete a year feeling satisfied rather than contemptuous about ourselves?
I'd like to take a risk and suggest one resolution that might last a year, or, maybe even, a lifetime. A resolution that makes you feel good about yourself whilst simultaneously including others.
It's not my idea so I don't want to take any credit for it. In fact, the idea originated from a movie called 'Pay It Forward' directed by Mimi Leder. If there's one video you need to see this year - then this is the one.
The idea is simple. The mathematics is simple. See how fast it grows?
Until today, this simple mathematical principle was abused through multi-level marketing and pyramid schemes. This year, you can use the same principle to make the world a better place.
Of course, there will be those people that break the chain. However, others still, will reach out and touch more people than you could possibly imagine. There are many ways to touch people's heart. Make it your resolution this year, and remember:
You do something good for other people.
These people cannot 'repay' you...
They are encouraged to pay-it-forward.
In turn, doing something good for someone else.
And so on and so forth.
If I'll do something constructive for 3 people and these 3 people in turn do something for 3 other people (each) - we have already impacted 9 people in total. These 9 people will make a difference in 27 people's life, which in their turn will touch 81 people's hearts...
Just open your heart and give...
Trust in the goodness of man and allow yourself to be overwhelmed.
An action, a hug, a word, a smile.
It takes ONE NATION to make a difference in this WORLD.
It takes ONE COMMUNITY to make a difference in this NATION.
It takes ONE FAMILY to make a difference in this COMMUNITY.
It takes ONE PERSON to make a difference in this FAMILY.
Go ahead and make someone's day.
See how it makes YOU feel.
Then when they smile back and thank you,
ask them to pass it forward...

8 Comments:
Well let me be the first to hug my pirate friend! (((HUG)))
That felt great!
Please AB, would you pass it along?
By nikonforme, Dec 29 07 12:07 PM
I'll hug you back and then pass it on! ((((((HUG)))))) Thanks Shane! :)
By AnneBonney, Dec 29 07 12:43 PM
Awwww it's hug time....
Anne that is a lovely suggestion / reminder.
I have good intentions every year...sometimes that's all they remain, so I'll see both your hugs and raise your spirits with Good Wishes for a Safe and Happy and Healthy 2008
OOOOXXXX(((((HUG)))))XXXXOOOO
By MarchHare007, Dec 29 07 10:55 PM
Thanks Julie! Happy New Year and ((((Hugs))) to you too!
By AnneBonney, Dec 30 07 10:08 PM
Happy New Year to my favorite land lubbing pirates, AB and Rawhide!!
Best wishes for a Happy 2008!
By Squisher, Jan 01 08 5:11 PM
Now Rawhide is a Pirate? I thought he was a cowboy. I'm packing it in for the rest of the night, before hittiing a wall over and over. Hugs for squish and Rick and Anne ! Foo foo too. with the duck! and shane!
By leelee63, Jan 02 08 6:57 PM
Happy New Year darlin', you're sooo damn hot with that coquettish smile. ((((Massive Hug)))
Don't change.....ever!*Lopsided smile .. sappy face*
Please forgive me Rawhide but I can't help myself.
By _Morpheus_, Jan 03 08 10:00 AM
Oh and please don't talk about inflated chests...cover your ears Michy.
By _Morpheus_, Jan 03 08 10:05 AM