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Well, I'm married and just got back from the honeymoon in Paris on Thursday. Will give more details later.

Ok, I got into what everyone else is doing and created a tournament... Mine's on Babylon 5 and Star Trek trivia.

 

http://my.funtrivia.com/tournament/Star-Trek-and-Babylon-5-60973.html

A new quiz of mine has been placed online!  It is in the Electronics and Circuits category, in Sci / Tech.  Click on the link below to play it, and feel free to leave comments!

 

	Cellular Phone Technology (10 questions)
	What do you know about cell phones? Is yours a TDMA or a GSM? A dual band or a quad band? If you know the difference, you may be able to do well on this quiz!

This letter to the editor was forwarded to me. it's written by Major General William McCoy in response to an article that was published in the Washington Post. Whether you agree with what it says or not, it was interesting to read, so I thought I would post it here for others to read. (I was also told to forward it on and let others know they can also forward it on to others.)

 

From: McCoy, William MG GRD
Sent: Sunday, August 06, 2006 11:48 AM
To: 'letters@washpost.com'
Subject: Letter to the Editor
 
I am submitting this as a Letter to the Editor based on the terrible, and largely inaccurate, article I read by Andy Mosher.  he knows there is a good side to the story of Reconstruction in Iraq; he saw it! yet he chose to write a negative story based on old SIGIR findings. Why? Don't you want the American people to know the truth?
 
Why Won’t They Tell You the Truth?
 
After spending almost three days traveling with and being interviewed by one of the co-writers of a very poorly written article (“Much Undone in Rebuilding Iraq, Audit says”, Washington Post, August 2, 2006), I’m astounded at how distorted a good story can become and what agenda drives a paper to see only the bad side to the reconstruction effort here in Iraq.  Instead of distorting the facts, let’s get to the truth.
 
There is no flailing reconstruction effort in Iraq. The United States has rightfully invested $20 billion in Iraq’s reconstruction - in the opinion of many here, we should do more. This massive undertaking is part of a wider strategy for success in Iraq that involves the establishment of a democratic government, the development of professional Iraqi Security Forces, and the restoration of basic essential services and facilities to promote the sustained economic development of this new country.
 
Yes, this reconstruction effort has been challenged occasionally by security, poor materials, poor construction program management practices, and in some cases poor performance by contractors for a variety of reasons. The Department of State and Defense professionals over here, many of them civilian volunteers, and the Iraqi associates who risk their lives every day to have a future that approximates what America has today, continuously see the challenges and develop and implement solutions. This is a core part of managing construction anywhere in the world and, while somewhat more complex here, it is successfully being accomplished. Have we been guilty of poor planning and mismanagement? The answer to that is, at times, yes.  But professionals constantly strive to overcome challenges that arise and we are succeeding and making Iraq better every day!
 
The heart of the article rests on several old statements by the Special Investigator General for Iraq Reconstruction (SIGIR) which infer these are recent or recurring problems.  The SIGIR knows that, in fact, program management, construction quality, progress, and accountability have all improved significantly since the early days of the effort some three years ago. Yet, the reporters’ “project problems” comments infer that these are recent issues. Such actions inflame public opinion in the United States and create resentment by the very people so many conscientious Americans over here are trying to help here in Iraq and worse, embolden our very enemies.  
 
When I arrived here a year ago we planned to complete 3,200 reconstruction projects. Today we are focusing on the completion of 3,700 projects. We’ve started 3,500 of those projects and completed almost 2,800…and work is continuing!  This is not a failure to meet our commitment to the Iraqi people as the article states. In some cases we are not executing the same projects—we have changed to meet new priorities of three government changes in Iraq since our arrival—but in all cases, rest assured, these projects will be completed.  We discussed this at length with the reporter…and he was taking notes and recording our conversations.
 
We told the reporter that, while 141 health clinic construction projects were taken away from a U.S. contractor who failed to perform, they were re-awarded to Iraqi contractors who are already demonstrating progress, have improved quality and shown their great desire to work with the United States to help Iraq improve…and they are doing so phenomenally!  We did talk to the reporter about on electricity. Three-quarters of Iraq gets twice as much electricity today as they did before the war.  Furthermore, we are working with the Minister of Electricity to improve the situation in Baghdad daily and have doubled the hours of power from four to eight in the capitol in the last six months in spite of the fact that demand is markedly increased with Iraqis’ new ability to buy personal electrical products.  What is truly amazing to me is that we took the reporter to the Nasiriyah prison project and, while it is true that we terminated the prime U.S. contractor for failure to perform, the Iraqi sub-contractor continues to work there (now directly for us) and his progress and quality have improved significantly...and he saw that! We are not turning unfinished work over to the Iraqis as he stated in his article; we are fulfilling the U.S. commitment to the people of Iraq and using Iraqis to do it!
 
The reporter didn’t tell you about the hundreds of dedicated military and civilian professionals he saw over here working to make Iraq better, or the Iraqis who come to work every day at their own peril because they believe in what we, and they, are accomplishing together. He failed to tell you about Aseel or Salah who worked for the Corps of Engineers since we arrived in 2003, because they wanted to make their country like ours, but who were recently brutally murdered in the streets because they worked for the Americans.  He never wrote about the Water Treatment Plant he visited that will provide fresh potable water to over half a million people in southern Iraq in just two more months, or the one in northern Iraq that is providing water for the 330,000 citizens of Irbil. He never told folks back home about the thousands of children that are now in 800 new or rebuilt schools, or about oil production now being back to pre-war levels and getting better everyday, or raw sewage being taken out of the streets and put back in the pipes where it belongs, or about the thousands of miles of new roads, or post offices, police stations or courthouses or… well, he just left a great deal out now, didn’t he?
 
Why?  Perhaps it’s because some in the press don’t want the American people to know the truth and prefer instead to only report the negative aspects of the news because “it sells papers.”  We deserve better from those who claim the protection of the Constitution we are fighting to support and defend. America, don’t give up. You are doing much better over here than all too many of your press will tell you. If you are tired of fighting for freedom and democracy for those who so strongly long for the country we have, then think of the alternatives for a moment. Iraq will be better for our efforts and so will the world.  And you are making it happen. Be proud and keep supporting this vital effort. It is the most important thing America can do.
 
Thank you. I invite you and your staff to come over at any time to get the facts. I took a risk with Mr Mosher and obviously got what I consider to be a very unbalanced representation of what he saw, personally.  But I still believe in general in the press and will always be open to helping you tell a balanced story.
 
Essayons! Deliverance!
 
MG Bill McCoy
CG, Gulf Region Division/Dir, Project and Contracting Office
Multi-National Force-Iraq

I just feel like I should be happy and I can't get there. I think I'm missing out on a lot because I'm not excited about the planning and what's going on around me - but I'm just not excited, I'm apathetic. I don't really CARE about what's going on and get mad when choices are made *for* me. But I don't really want to make the choices, so I'll just pick the cheapest thing, because that's how I usually make choices.

 

I'm still mad about someone inviting his mother (as we'd already agreed to invite his father - who I don't really care too much for in the first place after how little respect he showed for cancelling so many times and then the fact that I learned nothing from the premarital counseling as it was simply repeating the same 5 minutes over and over again).

It's like everything has just piled on top and I'm just at the point where it really doesn't matter anymore. I can just curl into a ball and it will all happen regardless of what I do, so why bother trying? Why should I try to be happy or to make decisions that I want or to whatever anymore? It's not going to be how I envisioned it - either my 'dream wedding' or my 'dream wedding on a budget', so why bother trying? I just keep making myself worse by trying.

 

Now I can try and let go of trying... But will that get me happy again? I don't know.

At least my cat is healthy again. I keep focusing on that.